This is going to sound crazy, but I like when a girl is clingy, co-dependent, needy and calls me all the time! Why the hell do you think I like women? They're nuts! That's what makes them great.
It's ok if you need me to commit -- I'm happy to oblige.
Do you fall in love quickly? So do I! Do you think you're too romantic and mushy and end up getting hurt too often? Hey, me too!
I'm serious about all of this. I hate dating, I hate games, I hate having to either impress a girl, or skirt around the issues or act like I'm too busy for her or that I don't care -- just to keep her interested. It's all bullshit.
And cheap, no-strings sex? What fun is that without all the emotional drama?
We live in a society that has completely lost its penchant for romantic passion. Everyone is afraid to show themselves and be vulnerable -- let me tell you something, to be open with yourself is the bravest and strongest thing of all. It is WEAK to hide behind your job, your career, your 'walls' to avoid relationship pratfalls. How boring life must be living that way!
No, I fall hard and fast and I want someone who is the same. I don't want someone perfect. I want someone emotional, passionate, intelligent and someone looking for love just like me.
Yes, sex is extremely important. But it doesn't mean a damn thing without respect, love, communication and some measure of commitment.
As for what I want physically -- I'm pretty open to a girl who is overweight. That doesn't matter to me. Skinny is fine, too. I have a thing for pale skin (I think overcooked tans are disgusting), I'm really drawn to a girl's eyes and face, and if you dress well in a way that complements you, that will be a big plus. Clothes make a big difference on just about everyone.
If we click and I like you, you'll be mine. I'm a committed, caring, romantic kind of guy, stuck in a city full of cynical, superficial morons. So I'm looking for a diamond in the rough. I won't take anything less.
(I'm a skinny white guy -- better make that clear. If you want a big, hairy muscular dude, that isn't me. Sorry about the lame pictures).